THE BLOG - INSIDE THE MIND OF A WHACK JOB

Welcome to my Home Page.   This is a web site and blog that I have created for the purpose of sharing my story of divorce, co-parenting, child visitation and a custody struggle with a woman that can be described in no other way but Crazy.   I will share real life stories, along with my commentary - some of it funny - most of it not - only because in the middle of all this is the life of a child.  No doubt this my perspective and I'm not writing to bash mothers, nor am I an embittered Dad. 

I am simply sharing my experiences, the hurt, the frustration and the complete sense of helpless that many fathers in similar situations may find themselves.  I will share how one parent through manipulation will work to ruin the relationship between a father and his child and a father's family and his child.  In some cases it's parent alienation, or hostile agressive parenting, but whatever the clinical name  - in the end it's child abuse. 

This is a real life story of a dysfunctional marriage,  a bitter divorce, culminating into a nasty custody battle.   I will document the struggles through stories dating back to the marriage, after the marriage and all through the custody battle.

The Ex-Wife is known here in these pages as the Pied Piper.  As some of you may know the The Pied Piper of Hameln is a legend about the abduction of many children from the town of Hameln.  As the legend goes a great number of boys and girls from their fourth year on were intoxicated with his skills of cohersion and flattery.   As such all these children trusted and followed the Pied Piper. The swarm followed him.  They trusted and believed in him.  And one day he led them into a mountain, where he disappeared with them never to be seem again.   And so it is the Crazy Ex, who is indeed the Pied Piper because on first blush, she in charming and engaging and easliy gains the trust of the young and the naive, only to turn on them when she can no longer control them or when they begin to realize all is not quite right.  This is where the anger, and vengence and fury originates.

This will illustrate how our court systems, the psychologists, counselors, custody evaluators, judges and most everyone else associated with the system work to maintain the status quo.  Why? Because there has been and always will be a biased against fathers.  On every level there is a belief that only a mother can provide the real nuturing and support a child needs.  It's outdated, it's unfair and in this case, when the care is entrusted to a very sick mind, it's dangerous.

I hope you read.  I hope you share.  I hope you come back often.  Please check out the blog below as I continually update with stories and happenings - both present and past.  


THE BLOG - INSIDE THE MIND OF A WHACK JOB